“Life is change, growth is optional. Choose wisely.”
Karen Kaiser Clark
September has arrived, and with it comes the opportunity to focus on growth, self-discovery, and positive change. As I bid farewell to the summer and welcome the autumn breeze, I’m excited to embark on a journey of self-improvement that’s uniquely me.
Embracing Self-Improvement: My Way In a world that’s constantly evolving, one thing remains clear – the potential for self-improvement. My passion for planning, organizing, and self-care guides me through a month of meaningful transformations. As I navigate through this journey, I’m blending my love for beauty, planning, and self-care to create an elegant path toward growth.
Unlocking the Power of Planning For me, planning goes beyond mere schedules and to-do lists. It’s about crafting a roadmap to my goals, dreams, and personal fulfillment. From a meticulously planned skincare routine to a well-structured day, planning is the cornerstone of intentional living.
Savoring Self-Care and Coffee Moments Self-improvement isn’t solely about productivity; it’s about nurturing my well-being. With a cup of coffee in hand, I’m finding moments of reflection and indulgence in the things that bring me joy. These moments are the heart of self-care and the foundation for growth.
Creating Positive Change, One Step at a Time September is my canvas for change, and I believe that progress is a journey, not a destination. I’m setting achievable goals, celebrating every milestone, and embracing setbacks as opportunities for growth. This journey is about creating a life that reflects my dreams and aspirations.
My Effect: A Beacon of Inspiration In a month dedicated to self-improvement, I’m inspired to be a beacon of my own journey. The blend of beauty, planning prowess, and self-care wisdom I offer is a testament to the art of continual growth. As we navigate challenges and celebrate triumphs, I invite everyone to join me in embracing self-improvement and the journey of becoming the best versions of ourselves.
So, as I embrace Self-Improvement Month, I’m following a path that’s uniquely mine – a journey of planning, beauty, and self-care intertwined with the pursuit of becoming my best self. Let’s welcome September with open arms, as I lead the way in creating a life that’s as elegant and well-curated as my own persona. Here’s to self-improvement, growth, and the art of becoming! 🌟📔🌷
Picture this: it’s a lazy Sunday morning, the aroma of freshly brewed coffee fills the air, and you’re armed with a planner, a pen, and a dash of imagination. As you take that first sip of your favorite java, you’re not just sipping coffee; you’re sipping on inspiration, ambition, and the promise of a productive week ahead. Welcome to the world where the weekend transforms into a canvas for creative planning, all while infusing your unique style into every detail.
Just like how your morning coffee carries the power to awaken your senses, your weekend holds the potential to awaken your goals and aspirations. In the hustle and bustle of life, we often overlook the art of harnessing our weekends for intentional planning. But fear not, because we’re about to dive into a journey where the blending of caffeine and creativity takes center stage.
Think of your weekend as that captivating blend of beans you carefully choose for your cup of joe. It’s not just any two days; it’s an opportunity to blend your personal style with strategic planning, resulting in a concoction that fuels both your passion and your productivity. Just as you savor the layers of flavor in your coffee, you’re about to explore the layers of planning, goal-setting, and self-care that can brew a week full of accomplishments.
So, grab your planner and your favorite mug, because we’re about to embark on a journey where the weekend becomes your palette, coffee becomes your companion, and planning becomes your masterpiece. Whether you’re a morning planner, a midnight scribbler, or someone who fancies a midday planning rendezvous, get ready to infuse your weekend with the kind of energy that can only come from a well-brewed blend of planning and personal style.
Get ready to sip, sketch, and set your intentions. It’s time to turn your weekend into a canvas of possibilities, painted with the hues of your personal flair. Welcome to the art of productive planning with a side of coffee-fueled creativity. Let’s dive in and brew up a weekend that sets the tone for a week that’s as bold and flavorful as your favorite cup of joe.
Absolutely, let’s delve deeper into the importance of planning your week, including the upcoming weekend, and provide tips for setting clear goals:
The Art of Weekend Planning: Setting the Stage for Success
In the whirlwind of modern life, the concept of the weekend often brings a sense of relief and relaxation. However, beneath the surface lies a treasure trove of opportunity waiting to be harnessed. By incorporating the weekend into your weekly planning, you’re not just enjoying a break; you’re crafting a strategic foundation for the days ahead.
Embrace the Power of Comprehensive Planning
Weekend planning isn’t just about the days off; it’s about weaving those precious moments seamlessly into your overall week. A well-structured plan doesn’t view the weekend in isolation; instead, it envisions it as an integral part of the canvas upon which your week’s masterpiece is painted. Why? Because when you allocate time for relaxation, leisure, self-care, and even a touch of productivity, you’re setting yourself up for success on multiple fronts.
Tips for Setting Clear Goals: From Work to Well-Being
Begin with the End in Mind: As you set your goals for the weekend, envision what you want to accomplish by the time Sunday evening rolls around. This mental snapshot will serve as your North Star as you navigate the weekend.
Balance Across Domains: Your goals should encompass various facets of your life—work, personal growth, relaxation, and social connections. Balancing these domains ensures you’re not just productive, but also nurturing a holistic sense of well-being.
Prioritize Tasks: Break down your larger goals into manageable tasks. Prioritize them based on urgency, importance, and alignment with your long-term objectives. This way, you’re channeling your energy into tasks that truly matter.
Be Realistic and Specific: Set achievable goals that are specific and measurable. Instead of vague goals like “work on a project,” aim for “complete research phase of Project X” or “write draft of report.”
Delegate and Collaborate: Don’t hesitate to delegate tasks that others can handle or collaborate with colleagues on projects. This not only lightens your load but also fosters teamwork.
Include Self-Care: Prioritize self-care as a goal. Schedule time for activities that recharge you—whether it’s reading, yoga, a leisurely walk, or quality time with loved ones.
Visualize Success: As you set your goals, visualize yourself achieving them. This mental exercise can motivate and energize you, making your goals more attainable.
Celebrate Milestones: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, even the small ones. Positive reinforcement boosts motivation and reinforces your commitment to your goals.
By weaving weekend planning into your overall routine and setting clear, well-defined goals, you’re maximizing the potential of your free days. From work-related milestones to nurturing self-care moments, you’re setting the stage for a weekend that’s both rejuvenating and productive. Remember, each goal achieved during the weekend is a step closer to your larger aspirations—a testament to the power of strategic planning and the magic of well-spent weekends.
Absolutely, let’s dive into your favorite planning tools and how they add a touch of style to your weekend organization:
Stylish Tools for a Weekend Full of Flair
When it comes to weaving a tapestry of productivity and style into your weekends, the tools you choose play a pivotal role. These tools aren’t just practical aids; they’re an extension of your personality, helping you curate a weekend that’s both functional and fabulously stylish.
Chic Planners that Speak Your Language
Enter the world of planners that are more than just pages; they’re canvases waiting for your dreams and ambitions to take shape. Tula Xii and Go Getter Girl Co. planners aren’t merely tools; they’re companions on your journey towards goal-crushing and memory-making. Their sleek designs and thoughtful layouts blend seamlessly with anyone’s, (definitely mine to be honest) personal style, ensuring that every page you turn reflects your unique essence.
Pens with Personality
Grab your favorite pens! My favorite go-tos: the Papermate Flairs and Pen Gems, are more than writing instruments; they’re the wands that bring my thoughts to life on paper. As we glide them across our planner’s pages, our words take on a vibrancy that mirrors our zest for life. The choice of pens isn’t just about functionality; it’s about finding tools that resonate with your creative spirit. Do you have favorites? I’d love to hear in the comments which ones you use. I’m always looking for new pens and markers to add to my vast collection.
Highlighting Your Brilliance
Who says highlighting is just about marking text? With my must-have Mildliners or your favorite brand, you’re not just accentuating words; you’re adding strokes of color that evoke your passion and enthusiasm. These aren’t just highlighters; they’re brushstrokes on the canvas of your plans, guiding your eyes and thoughts towards what truly matters. I love using them for color-coding too. Helps me see if I’m balancing different areas of my life and work well. If I see a lack of certain colors it helps draw my attention to it so that I can perhaps consider reprioritizing and rescheduling to make room for important areas like self-care and family time.
Sticky Notes and Stickers: Small Accents, Big Impact
Sticky notes and stickers aren’t just adornments; they’re the brushstrokes that turn your plans into a work of art. From small sticker shops to Tula Xii, each sticky note and sticker is like a tiny gem adorning your planning canvas. They’re reminders of the little joys that punctuate your journey, and they infuse your weekends with a dash of whimsy.
Brewing Creativity with Your Cup of Choice
And then there’s your trusty coffee mug—the vessel that holds more than just coffee. It holds your ideas, your intentions, and your dreams. As you take each sip, you’re sipping on inspiration, fortifying yourself for the planning ahead. I have seasonal mugs that add whimsy to my planning and I have the very important Kansas City Chiefs mugs that are must haves on game days throughout the football season. I mean, for me, this tradition has been linked to the win and loss record of the team so I guess you would say I’m superstitious. I’d like to think of it more like a ritual. Do you have coffee mugs that are sentimental or linked to certain days of the week or year? I’d love to hear the story in the comments.
Who says flavor is just for coffee? I used flavored coffee and Skinny Syrups to infuse more than just taste into my weekends; they infuse personality and delight. Each drop is a reminder that even the smallest details deserve attention and care. Do you like flavored coffee? Are you a Pumpkin Spice Latte fan? I’m more into caramel and cinnamon and vanilla for my coffees although I do have PS syrup on my coffee bar for guests and my occasional desire to join the PSL fandom.
Java Adventures
And let’s not forget the coffee itself. My favorite coffee from Java Momma isn’t just a beverage; it’s the elixir of motivation that fuels my planning endeavors. It’s the companion that keeps my senses awake and my ambitions alive.
So, as I open my stylish planner, grab my favorite pens, and adorn my pages with sticky notes and stickers, I remember that these tools are more than accessories. They’re my creative arsenal, my companions on the journey towards a weekend that’s both meticulously planned and fabulously fashionable. With each stroke of the pen and each sip of coffee, I’m not just organizing my time; I’m crafting a week and weekend that are a masterpiece of style and substance.
Weekend Symphony: Striking the Perfect Chord Between Hustle and Chill
Ah, the weekend—a melody that harmonizes relaxation with productivity, turning two days into a symphony of accomplishment and enjoyment. As someone who embraces the art of planning, sips coffee like it’s liquid ambition, and thrives on the vibrant rhythm of life, I’m about to uncover the strategies that create a weekend score worthy of applause. Let me how these strategies resonate with you. What works and what doesn’t. I love learning from my readers.
Strategy 1: The Productive Prelude
Kickstart your weekend with a “Productive Prelude.” Harness the early hours when your energy is high and your focus is laser-sharp. Tackle those tasks that need your full attention, whether it’s a work project, an organizing frenzy, or a burst of creative brainstorming. Think of it as your opening act—a crescendo of accomplishment before the leisurely interlude.
Strategy 2: The Coffee & Conquer Technique
Leverage your coffee ritual for maximum efficiency with the “Coffee & Conquer Technique.” Sip your favorite brew as you tackle tasks that require less mental strain. Respond to emails, check off smaller to-dos, and tidy up your workspace. Your coffee-induced clarity adds a touch of humor as you conquer tasks with a caffeine-fueled grin.
Enter the “Self-Care Serenade,” where relaxation takes center stage. Whether it’s a spa-worthy skincare routine, a book that whisks you away, or simply basking in the embrace of your favorite cozy corner, this strategy strikes a chord with your passion for self-care. Remember, a well-rested you is a force to be reckoned with.
Strategy 4: The Whimsical Work-Break Waltz
Infuse a bit of whimsy with the “Whimsical Work-Break Waltz.” Alternate bursts of focused work with delightful breaks. Set a timer for 25 minutes (a.k.a. the Pomodoro Technique), and when the timer rings, indulge in a mini-dance break or a quick doodle session. Who said work and play can’t waltz together?
Strategy 5: The Laughter & Learn Rhapsody
Merge humor with learning through the “Laughter & Learn Rhapsody.” Dedicate a part of your weekend to enhancing your skills or diving into a topic you’re curious about. Listen to an engaging podcast, watch an insightful documentary, or read a book that both educates and entertains. Your quest for knowledge becomes a joyful journey of growth.
Strategy 6: The ‘Let’s Tackle It Together’ Sonata
Invite a friend or family member to join you in the “Let’s Tackle It Together Sonata.” Collaborate on a task, whether it’s a DIY project, a cooking experiment, or a decluttering mission. As you navigate the challenges together, your shared laughter and camaraderie create a duet of accomplishment and joy.
Strategy 7: The Blissful Balance Coda
End your weekend with the “Blissful Balance Coda.” Reflect on your achievements and the moments that brought you joy. Raise a cup of coffee to toast the balance you’ve achieved—equal parts productivity and relaxation. The beauty lies not just in the notes you’ve played, but in the rhythm you’ve orchestrated.
With these strategies, you’re not just enjoying a weekend; you’re creating a symphony of accomplishment and enjoyment that resonates with your unique brand persona. From coffee-fueled bursts of productivity to whimsical work-break waltzes, your weekends become a masterpiece composed of laughter, relaxation, and triumph. So go forth, orchestrate your weekend with finesse, and let the music of balance guide you through every note of the melody.
Make Time for Self-Care each Weekend
Look at your weekend calendar and try adding at least one, if not three of the following into your plans. Making time for your self-care ensures you are refueled and refreshed when it comes to tackling all of those goals you’ve set for yourself along with mastering your mindset for the juggle of demands you are planning to meet.
Spa Morning Ritual: Kickstart your Saturday with a spa-inspired morning ritual. Begin with a soothing skincare routine, complete with your favorite cleanser, exfoliator, and luxurious moisturizer. As you massage in each product, visualize the stress melting away, leaving behind a radiant you.
Coffee Meditation: Turn your coffee routine into a mindful meditation. Brew your favorite blend and find a cozy spot by the window. As you savor each sip, focus on the aroma, the warmth, and the moment of tranquility it offers. Let the coffee awaken not just your senses, but your appreciation for the present.
Book Nook Escape: Designate a corner of your space as a “Book Nook Escape.” Surround yourself with plush pillows, a cozy blanket, and a stack of books you’ve been longing to read. Lose yourself in the pages, journeying to far-off lands or exploring new ideas.
Journaling Journey: Set aside time on Sunday morning for a journaling journey. Reflect on the past week’s successes and challenges. Write down your aspirations for the week ahead. This self-reflection becomes a map guiding you towards personal growth.
Creative Art Session: Unleash your inner artist in a creative art session. Whether it’s painting, sketching, or crafting, let your hands dance on the canvas. The act of creation is not just therapeutic; it’s an expression of your unique essence.
Nature Connection: Venture outdoors for a nature walk. Feel the sun on your skin, listen to the rustling leaves, and let the fresh air invigorate your senses. Nature’s embrace provides a reset button for your soul.
Mindful Movement: Dedicate time to mindful movement, whether it’s yoga, a dance workout, or a gentle stretch routine. Let the movement be a celebration of your body’s strength and resilience.
Cooking Creativity: Experiment with cooking a new recipe, infusing creativity into your culinary journey. As you chop, sauté, and season, you’re not just nourishing your body, but your spirit too.
Virtual Coffee Date: Connect with a friend or family member virtually for a “Virtual Coffee Date.” Share stories, laughter, and a cup of coffee as you bridge the distance with love and connection.
Digital Detox: Designate a few hours on Sunday as a “Digital Detox” period. Put away screens and engage in offline activities that bring you joy, whether it’s gardening, playing an instrument, or practicing a hobby.
Pampering Bath: Create a spa-like experience with a pampering bath. Use your favorite bath bombs, essential oils, and soft music to set the ambiance. Sink into the warm water and let the worries of the week dissolve.
Outdoor Exploration: Plan a mini adventure, like a hike, a visit to a local park, or a picnic in your backyard. The change of scenery can refresh your mind and soul.
Remember, weaving self-care into your weekend isn’t just a luxury; it’s a necessity. By prioritizing these moments, you’re nurturing your well-being and setting the stage for a week that’s not just productive, but also filled with the richness of self-love and joy.
Reflect and Refresh Embrace the “Reset and Refresh” mindset as the weekend fades, where you revisit your accomplishments, set intentions, and infuse your week with purpose. Reflect on your weekend wins while savoring your favorite coffee, celebrating each achievement as milestones of progress. Look ahead with hope and set intentions for the week—whether work-related goals or self-care moments—visualizing them as part of a fulfilling journey. Let your planner be a tapestry of purpose, where intentions weave into a beautiful story of your aspirations. Dedicate time for self-care rituals that rejuvenate body and soul, incorporating activities like skincare routines and peaceful walks. Celebrate the week’s progress and embrace the cycle, infusing weekends and weekdays with intention and empowerment. Through this approach, each day is a canvas for purposeful planning, and self-care becomes your guiding compass, leading you toward a week that’s both accomplished and rejuvenated.
The Art of Curated Weekends As the curtains draw on your weekend, it’s time to relish the delightful masterpiece you’ve painted—accomplishments, self-care, and purposeful planning all swirled together in a canvas that’s unmistakably you. Think of it as your personal blend, just like that perfect cup of coffee that brings joy and a jolt of energy.
Crafting a Weekend: Your Personal Artistry
Crafting weekends isn’t just about to-do lists; it’s about channeling your inner artist. Picasso had his brush strokes; you have your planner, your favorite coffee mug, and a dash of humor that makes even mundane tasks seem like a punchline waiting to be delivered. Remember, life isn’t just lived; it’s curated, and you’re the curator-in-chief.
Harmony of Hustle and Humor
The beauty lies in the harmonious symphony of hustle and humor. Picture this: you, in your pajamas, tackling tasks like a boss while humming your favorite tune. You’re not just checking off boxes; you’re dancing through your to-dos, letting humor be the rhythm that keeps you going.
Masterpiece: Yours to Paint
Each weekend is your blank canvas, ready for the swirls and strokes of your intentions. It’s like Picasso said, “Art washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life.” Your art is in planning that energizes, self-care that revitalizes, and humor that sprinkles a little sparkle.
Blend of Bliss
The blend you create is a cocktail of accomplishments and a dash of delightful relaxation. It’s like crafting a perfect cup of coffee—strong, sweet, and just the way you like it. In each sip, you’re savoring not just the taste, but the journey itself.
Sip, Savor, and Plan the Beauty Ahead
And as you sip your coffee, you’re not just nourishing your senses; you’re nurturing your aspirations. With your planner in hand, you’re not just planning; you’re sketching the vibrant beats of a life filled with beauty, purpose, and a sprinkle of humor. So, here’s to weekends that are as splendid as your favorite cup of joe, and to planning a life that’s as enchanting as it is accomplished. Sip, savor, and let’s plan our beauty-filled journey ahead, together.
Cheers to a life that’s beautifully brewed and wonderfully lived! 🌟🍃☕
She didn’t have all the answers either. And she still doesn’t. She justst said, I’m doing it ANYWAY.
Enjoying my coffee time when all is quiet. I cannot say all because the fur babies are awake and their paws are tapping away on the wooden floors. There are some days where I wish I had more rugs along their beaten path to muffle their clickety-clack. On days like today, I have to sip my coffee a bit more eagerly so that the caffeine kicks in and I can tune out their distractions.
I set aside 10-20 minutes in my morning meditation to journal Bible verses. In January when I built my Vision board I chose words Strength and Dignity. I choose to surround myself in reading, writing, praying, playing, and meditating on those words. And funny enough, I seem to run across or search for items and articles that focus on that positivity.
Today, I served up my java in one of those pretty finds that I came across at The Daily Grace. This site is a Women’s Bible Study ministry that is one of my go to sites for study tools and topics. I have acquired quite a collection of journals, pens, studies and accessories. And my cup is one of my most recent acquisitions. It is just so lovely.
Bible Journaling
I appreciate that there are many ways to study the Bible and journaling is a relatively new discovery for me and I enjoy how my love of writing and crafting are married with this mode of spending time with God.
Throughout each month I have 3 or 4 methods that I dive into every day. Days that are short on time you will find that I invest in only one. But invest I do. Time with my coffee and in the Word sets my day along a calming and focused path. There are days where I may oversleep and am sipping coffee on the go and the day seems to run me more ragged. On those days, I find a quiet time later, pour another cup of coffee, and just find my quiet chair in my room and ensure my day doesn’t end as it began.
I encourage you to find time with your favorite beverage and a quiet place to journal, meditate, and read. Start your day off this way and see how the day goes. End your day this way and see how your sleep is restful and healing. Do both and get a double whammy of positivity for yourself.
Here are some of the quiet time techniques that I enjoy.
Daily Verse Journaling
This is one of the simplest ways to spend 10 to 15 minutes a day. Pinterest is filled with themed monthly ideas for each day. I snagged a couple of ideas I planned for May below. I may not get to these every single day and spend a weekend morning catching up. I love how one of the many creators always seems to know what encouragement I am hoping to find in Scripture from one month to the next.
Wonder how to take this into practice? I have a planner for that. Here are some snaps from my January pages in my Happy Planner.
The Reset Girl’s Faithful Life
My girl, Cori, over at www.theresetgirl.com is so inspirational and creative. I consistently enjoy her easy way of incorporating crafting, journaling, and studying all in one space. She offers a free monthly prompt for journaling verses in a theme. Visit her website to find more.
Let me show you some past pretty pages I have made with inspiration from Cori and the Facebook Group.
This month she provided this idea and I am looking forward to some crafty journaling this evening.
Prayer Journal
Some days I really enjoy just writing out my prayers. It feels so much like writing to the best pen pal out there. I share my hopes and dreams. I thank him for the little things and the major things. I lay out my worries and I ask for His advice. I have so many journals , large and small. Everywhere I go I have one with me so that I can pop in and write a love letter to God.
Coloring The Word
I have an Inspire Bible and some days i just love picking it up and coloring the “coloring pages” in the margins while I read the verses and meditate on what I have read. Coloring is so relaxing. Many groups are out there who take this even further with mixed media and maybe some day I will explore further. These crafters have perfected such an amazing art form of beautiful expression. For now, coloring in the lines is it for me. Baby steps.
Focused Studies
In groups and alone I find time throughout the year to pick up studies and inspirational fiction and non fiction and dive in. My mornings are so quiet that I allow myself to go deep into the content and learn about God and about myself.
Some people really are neat about it. Me, not always. I confess that during some of these studies I write in my Bible and in the books. And I know when I look back that I am probably the only human who understands.
I honestly feel pleased as punch when I am in a group or self-study and a reference takes me to a place I have been. I get to see what I learned before and maybe even add something new. Continuous learning is important to me.
I have many studies in my to be read pile but I find new ones and often go back to old ones to read again. One that I regularly go back to is Fervent.
Getting through this pile is ongoing because I let the Spirit lead me through them. I never worry about them in a deadline sense. I always seem to pick one up and the context and learning is timely to my heart and need. I love that plan.
I have a group of friends whom I have worked with who are also part of the same church family. We often get together for fellowship, friendship, encouragement and study. We pick a word each meeting and go away finding related verses to study. At our next meeting we share our favorites and we discuss why. This has given me more opportunities to be crafty.
Here is one week where we studied Grateful whereI learned about a woman of the Bible I had never given thought to when I read the verses before. Strong and faithful women like Priscilla who are “every day women” are always so inspiring to discover.
So there you have it!
I like variety and flexibility. It keeps me out of a rut of boredom. So many options are presented when I am sipping coffee and asking myself what sounds like fun in the time I have each morning.
I hope that these ideas bring you blessing and encouragement. If it inspires you to change up your quiet time, please let me know. And please share with me how you spend time if it is something not presented in my ideas. I love finding new ways to learn and meditate.
It is coffee time! Quiet time is so very precious to me. And this time at the beginning of every week as I sip coffee feels paramount to how the week can go. I take time to think on all that I need to do plus what I would like to do. It is my way of getting out of the bed on the right side.
The past few weeks have been a struggle in changing priorities and I have had to shift even more to remembering what matters most. This focus adds a perspective like no other. I want to ensure I balance Mom priorities over work priorities because the family needs that right now. It isn’t just about my schedule. It is more about being “present” in mind and heart more.
I spent most of my time sipping my first cup in a retrospective state and looked back on what did and did not go well over the past couple of weeks. I asked myself what I could do differently because I felt like I was being too hard on myself and others around me. I realized that my expectations were perhaps set too high or not communicated effectively which can cause conflict on the home front.
Setting my plan for this week I designed a motivational and functional week spread in my planner. I wanted to see reminders of what is really important at work so that I can keep the negative noise and nonsense from others in perspective. And in doing that I can avoid the negativity from seeping over into other aspects of life. Most importantly self care needs to be at the front of the train and not in the caboose as a back burner.
My spread is full of motivation and focus areas. It gives me permission to delegate nonsense to the back burner. I am reminding myself to be the servant leader by focusing on my team’s needs and being a positive in the storm. Recently I have had an opportunity to observe leaders who are in the trenches with their teams and leaders who stay back in the tent barking out orders and then hiding in the shelter waiting and watching. The latter leader style sometimes seeps negativity out beyond the team and affects the bigger goal. And it is simply not my style. So while I am in the trenches I want to remember to be positive and guide my crew to the best outcomes with encouragement, gratitude, and course corrections that take us along the journey to the finish line celebrating together.
This week I want to make sure that I am focusing on the behind the scenes planning that sets the stage for every act in the play my team is cast in so they can be stars. I want to ensure the setting is right, the props are in place, and that they know their lines.
At home, I want to keep the work from seeping in. I want to protect our time so that it is of such quality that we all feel accomplished and grateful.
These may seem lofty goals for the week but I don’t think so.
In any moment of negativity I plan to step outside of it and ask myself:
Am I the engineer on this train right now?
Is this helping any of my three focus areas?
Should this be back burner?
Will this seep beyond work?
Knowing the answers to these questions should guide me to the right energy level in the moment and maintain perspective.
At the end of the week I aim to have positive energy to tackle that garage with my family: A project that we never seem to get to with our conflicting schedules and energy levels.
Share your spreads for the week and share the why. I always want to understand others why.
Every once in awhile I come home to a box waiting for me. It feels like Christmas.
So, here is the latest box from Erin Condren! Isn’t that a pretty box? The word “enjoy!” and the pretty design lend a subtle clue that EC has blessed my step. I kinda dig when the box does not blatantly display a company name.
And when I saw this pastel beauty next to my front door I was a giddy girl. Ready to see what is inside? Me too!
Let’s open it!
The enjoy! theme is mirrored inside. I just adore when I order items and they come packaged like a gift. Personal touches is a trend that big box retailers miss.
When I was browsing the site I wanted a new notebook (Her planning system is not what I use these days) and was hoping I could find something with my words for 2018. This little gem ties nicely to Strength. So I jumped on in and customized to colors that made me happy. That is the fun of Erin Condren. You can personalize with your name and change the colors within her palatte range. And the paper quality is amazing! Let’s tour this notebook.
The cover is laminated so the inside can be used over and over again with the wet erase markers.
Instead of the standard lined notebook, I opted for the productivity notebook with a list margin. We all know i love making lists! I haven’t decided what I will do yet with this notebook. I know it is going to be for writing projects. And as a lover of lists I thought I could brainstorm in bullets or list what I might need to research.
The notebooks are filled with quotes and reminders of positivity which make me smile when I use them. I need more positivity. How about you?
Did I mention I love the paper? Made in the U.S.A. and a nice thick paper that won’t tear easily. I am in love and can’t wait until I have a block of time to play.
What else is in the box?
These gift tags were a freebie. I realized I shop regularly with EC and prefer online versus going to Staples for their limited inventory. And I never signed up for the EC Insider program. I finally took the plunge for the perks. And as a thank you they sent me these! What fun! Watch for a post in the not so distant future when I embellish with them.
Markers! I have to hide these from my teenager. I really do. Not only because she would likely borrow them with no plan to return but because I have been organizing in my office in my spare time and my marker/pen/highlighter collection is already put of hand. These are my first ever from EC. They were 15% off and the Wet Erase are needed for some other items in the box. And those are…
These laminated beauties were also on sale. I wanted to see how they work with any and all spiral notebooks. And I wanted to explore laminated or permanent reusable inserts for planners would work for me. Now you know why I needed the wet erase markers. I just love these colors! Watch for some future blogs where I plan with them. I am so excited.
Oh…that isn’t all!
I love pen holders that can be stuck in journals, notebooks, and planners. And these were on sale making them under $2 each. I have never tried EC holders. I have several from Happy Planner and Michael’s but they are not plain and simple. I am into the thought of the pen holder blending in and the pen of choice standing out.
And the Coil Clip Connectors allow you to put anything inside the spiralbound notebook, journal, or planner. A custom-made dashboard or checklist might be good to pop into one…and I have always wondered what to use. So I grabbed a couple to play around with and maybe share with my readers.
Last…but certainly not least. I love these daily dots sets.
And I have been meaning to play around with this on one of my planners. I cannot wait to show you how. I will also compare these to other daily dots that I have found via other retailers.
All in all I am happy with my new unboxing. The notebook feels so personal and was definitely a treat for me. I did pay full price for it. It is okay to splurge every once in a while. All of the accessories were on sale so I went a little crazy while still staying under my budget for my splurge. Don’t you love when that happens?
Watch for some projects coming up in the next couple of months as I put these to good use and compare EC products to other brands.
Have you ever purchased Erin Condren products? The company has quite a selection and not just paper and planners. The colors and desings change regularly throughout the year. I tend to place an order every quarter if one of the new designs catches my eye.
I am sipping coffee and contemplating why I always have loved Valentine’s Day. I find it to be one that can evoke many feelings based on your personal season in life.
Many of us as children exchanged cards and candy with classmates. We all had those teachers that creatively guided us through many art projects made from the shape of a heart.
My mother (I miss her on holidays) never missed an opportunity on any holiday, even St. Patrick’s Day and 4th of July, to give gifts. When I woke up on these “little” holidays, I would make a beeline to the kitchen to see what might be waiting. There was always a card. Like many Valentine gifts, there was likely a heart shaped box with a few chocolates and a little something else with the theme of hearts: barrettes, bracelet, earrings, or a shirt. It was never anything fancy yet I loves it. I loved incorporating a gift I could wear into my outfits that day. My mom was my favorite Valentine every year. Even in later years with boyfriends, best friends, and crushes, her gifts were the highlight. I wonder if I ever told her that?
As a Single Mom, I continue this tradition with my family. I didn’t plan ahead this year, so after being out of town for two weeks, I made sure last Sunday that my errands included picking up something for my children. Yes, my son is 22, his girlfriend is 21, and my daughter is 13. Like my mother, my children are never too old to gift. And like my mother, anyone in my home is part of the tradition. As a parent, we are our children’s first and continuous Valentine. Don’t you think?
So, they have Skittles and Russell Stover chocolates waiting for them.
And like my mom, I made sure I wasn’t left out.
I have these candy hearts to play with and nibble on throughout the day. I love these and conversation hearts. Perhaps this was the origin of my love for words. Thanks to my first and continuous Valentine: Mom.
Do you have Valentine’s Day traditions? Anything special planned for today? Whatever you do, I hope it is special and in the years down the road provides happy memories. Life isn’t about things. It is definitely about shared memories. As you can see I don’t remember the “things” in detail but the memories, they are quite vivid.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
P.S. It is also Ash Wednesday. Are you doing anything special this Lenten Season?
Growing up with a French speaking Grandmother, I always knew that Mardi Gras was French for Fat Tuesday. I also knew that it was the day before Ash Wednesday, the beginning of the Lenten season. Being raised Catholic Grandma made sure that I remembered to eat a big “fat” dinner that Tuesday every year because Wednesday meant a day of fasting and giving up something for Lent.
Over the years, I saw images and scenes depicting Mardi Gras festivals in places around the world. Even in school we were briefed on its history.
Mardi Gras is a season every year that really starts as Carnival and climaxes on Fat Tuesday. In places like New Orleans it has a very long history and more meaning than just the crazy costumes, beads, revelry, drunkenness, flashing and parades.
Knowing I was going to be in New Orleans during Carnival my planning included web research to brush up on the facts and found this Mardi Gras history lesson to be pretty concise and informative. I got lost in web land and remembered reading a book a few years ago, Downfall of a Good Girl. This sweet romance really piqued my interest in this annual event. Every time I see an NCIS: New Orleans episode around the week of Mardi Gras my yearnings persist.
2018 is my year. The Tri-Centennial Year of the city of New Orleans. Me. And my friends. In the Big Easy for Carnival.
Comparing my itinerary with the official Mardi Gras 2018 calendar brought out giddy girl excitement. Why? Well, the moon and stars aligned for me because the first parade of the season in the French Quarter hosted by Krewe du Vieux was the Saturday I was going to be in town. Yahoo!
Fast Forward to my trip. We went.
We stood in the crowds.
We met new people.
We had a great time experiencing a satirical and quite traditional Krewe Parade.
Satirical? Really? Oh my! Yes! This was not a parade for the narrow-minded. Nor was it a parade I would take minor children to. (This is certainly a parental choice. I did see a few children there and I am certainly not judging.) This year’s theme, in my mind was a sufficient warning.
The Krewe’s satire was bawdy and suggestive all while poking fun, or not so fun, at the Local Water and Sewer Commission. Some Krewes in New Orleans now steer away from some of these traditional satirical themes. Many use modern ways of pulling the floats. Krewe du Vieux (wikipedia.com) still holds to tradition with horses and mules.
I loved the entire experience and pretty sure my friends did too. The throws ran the gamut from pieces of candy and mini frisbees all the way to these raucous fans.
I captured a few videos I have uploaded to my YouTube channel, She Sips Coffee. Feel free to stop over and take a peek. You will find them here.
Knowing what I now know about Krewe history in New Orleans and seeing a parade, I have a whole new respect for the hard work done by these organizations. Not just during the Carnival season, because the work gets done year-round. Many work to raise awareness and many drive philanthropic agendas. They plan themes and floats probably almost as soon as they tear down the last one. As millions of people swarm the Bayou to party, I wonder how many know the history and honorable work of many of these men and women in these organizations? The annual parades and balls boost the local economy each year and lots of crazy stuff happens. I wanted to learn another side, or the why behind a theme. I watched for the message the Krewes were sending to the local politicians. Colorful images with creative puns and bawdy humor were prevalent from float to float tying to the theme and proving the hard work of the smaller Krewes that collectively form Krewe du Vieux. It wasn’t about the best Brass bands marching in between although they set the pace and gave us a party rhythm. We danced. We laughed. We were shocked. We were awed.
I wish I could have seen more parades and taken part in a Krewe Ball or two. Guess I just have to plan another visit to The Big Easy and soak more of it in.
The day after the parade, I saw this on a corner in the French Quarter. (It wasn’t raining.)
I immediately thought about why they chose their theme. Ten years after Katrina and essentially with NOLA being 300 years old, I believe there is work to be done to ensure a sound place to live. And don’t you want to believe New Orleans citizens want to offer a great city for you and me to visit? I appreciated the satire even more. Seems the opinion of the Krewe is that it is time for change.
Have you been to Mardi Gras or Carnival in New Orleans or other cities? Share your stories and memories in the comments below. Please!
The French Quarter is a world in itself. It is colorful and musical and wonderfully unlike anything in my desert oasis home of Phoenix. Waking up in the Big Easy in The Prince Conti Hotel, mere steps from Bourbon Street was surprisingly relaxing. I could have stayed at a newer hotel but I wanted a place that had history and was locally owned. This hotel, although older, has a charm that appeals to my writing soul. If I didn’t have a day of adventure planned, I could easily relax here and let words flow. If you are going to visit this wonderful city, stay in a place like Prince Conti and feel part of the history. This was my second time in this city and my second time at this hotel. The decor always takes my mind to corsets, ball gowns, pegnoirs, and beignets. The stuff in all the historical romances I have loved to read for decades. The staff is friendly, thoughtful and helpful with directions and suggestions on what to do.
My bestie and I enjoyed the late morning and early afternoon. We wandered Bourbon Street stopping in to listen to live music here and there taking advantage of great bar service along the way.
I loved every minute she and I spent. I had a thing about this place because of the fire and water fountain. I had to take a picture.
I had to eat too. And finding gluten free in the French Quarter is not so easy.
My true mission the second day in the city was finding my way to The French Market. And by late afternoon I was hungry. When I asked the best walking path to the market, Prince Conti staff were quick to point me in the right direction and suggested I try crab cakes at Meals From The Heart. Little did they know. I already had that place on my list from my research. I was also in search of The Crepe Cart . I dragged a couple of friends with me.
What a treat! My friends and I walked just over a mile toward the river past Jackson Square.
Until we found the place for crepes.
The folks at the cart matched the personality of the deliciousness they crafted. I couldn’t decide between savory or sweet so I asked for a suggestion and I went with it: Goat Cheese, Nutella, Bacon, and Ref Pepper Flakes on a gluten free crepe….amazing combination of flavors. This was totally off menu. You don’t have to be as daring as me. But you really should visit the market for this great stop.
And crab cakes? I did save room for one.
Melt in your mouth moist and perfectly flaky crab cakes. This is literally the best crab cake I have ever had. Their secret to gluten free is no secret. They simply do not put in bread crumbs as a filler. Pure crab and spices. And gluten free. The owner was friendly. He shared stories of how his mother as the master chef makes it her mission to devise vegan and gluten free foods with authentic Creole and Cajun recipes. I didn’t have enough tummy space but I really wanted to try their gumbo too. There was nothing fancy about eating at these places but they were definitely hidden gems in the French Market. I know that each and every opportunity I get to return to New Orleans a day of tummy pleasing grazing will be planned in the heart of The French Market.
And I will wash it down with a nice cup of New Orleans Coffee at Cafe du Monde nearby.
If only someone somewhere in The Big Easy would master a gluten free beignet! My foodie heart would be complete.
Now that I am home all I can think about is beignets and I keep looking at internet recipes and thinking about making them at home. If I do, I am inviting all my friends over to help me eat them and tell me how close they might be to the real thing. What if I mastered them, moved to New Orleans, and opened The Beignet Basket in The French Market myself?
Are you ready to travel along with me and hear about my 2-week adventure? You helped me pack and plan. Now I am ready to explore.
I didn’t even sleep a wink like I suspected. I don’t know about you, even at 47 years old I still anticipate the trip and stay awake the night before my vacation. I tend to watch movies and triple check the packing list because the last things to pack are important: hygiene, health, and beauty items.
So with no sleep I headed to the airport with my bestie Trish. And on each flight our giddy inner-selves emerged. And we met fellow Rock Boaters along the way and made sure everyone in social media circles knew we were coming.
We skipped fruit juice with breakfast and opted for the adult version in-flight. Why not? And even better, they were free.
Southwest last minute repairs had us departing late and worried about our connections. Juggling passenger flight changes while we waited so lots of people, including my bestie, ended up on different flight which coincidentally was my connecting flight. We met up with our other friends in NOLA baggage claim and headed to the hotel together.
The first day was packed full of fun. We stopped in at Famous Door and listened to music.
We waited with anticipation for our first parade.
I will write a separate post about the parade. I promise. That experience was amazing.
We ended up visiting bars on Bourbon. We loved Ticklers the most. We spent about 8 hours there with the dueling piano guys. And ran into friend after friend who would be joining us on the cruise. Sing alongs and drinks and merriment make for a great day. We made our way to famous Pat O’Brien’s because you have to have a Hurricane from that place. You just have to! And ran into more friends. Such fun.
I found out the next morning I did a few shots and we are a late night breakfast close to the hotel. Ummm. I would say day One was amazing fun. Wouldn’t you?
Have you imbibed in New Orleans on Bourbon Street? What was your experience like?
“Six o’clock already…I was just in the middle of a dream.” Do you remember that song, “Manic Monday” by The Bangles? What about, “Rainy Days and Mondays” by The Carpenters? Why do we let Mondays or whatever day is the start of our week influence our moods such?
There are some Mondays when the unthinkable happens and it just seems that Murphy’s Law presides. The alarm clock didn’t go off or I slept through it. I am out of coffee! (Gasp!) The kids refuse to get up. My dog (any of the three) took off with one of the shoes I planned to wear hoping that keeps me from leaving. It is pouring rain. I can’t find my lunch box or my work I.D. Some Mondays just seem like the worst day ever before I step foot out of the house. Tell me I am not alone.
It always seems that Manic Mondays turns into a snowball of a week that continues to get bigger the next day and the next. On a week like that getting to Friday seems to be impossible and all I want to do is crawl under the covers each day in defeat asking if there is a “do over” button somewhere.
Here I am. Another Monday. It has a way of sneaking up on me. Today is not rainy. It is not manic. I am sipping coffee and I am enjoying my quiet time. I am working from home. There is no school because it is MLK Day. But not every Monday is so simple. I decided last year to do my best to take back Mondays from Murphy’s Law. To do that I had to find a way to manage the day. And step one for every Monday starts with some pre work over the weekend.
Weekend Wisdom
I am like many folks and I have certain tasks I plan to do every weekend. I run errands, launder clothes and complete other household chores. I used to feel accomplished but I also became annoyed because it didn’t feel like we were enjoying weekends as a family or with any rest.
My kids are older now and can share these responsibilities. Communicating expectations to everyone is important. So Sunday is my planning day. I plan menus, I set a cleaning schedule, and I batch cook ahead a few meals. I post these lists on the refrigerator and everyone knows what is for dinner and when I would like things to get done. We share the load. With work, school, activities and busy schedules deciding who does what when is something we each own our personal share. I also note important days to remember and post it on the fridge. Then, we can enjoy time together and I nag less. Who wants a nagging mom?!?
Here are this week’s beauties. (As you can see, I don’t make these pretty every time. I should use a pen that erases and I am sure a sticker or two with a splash of washi would be good. Depends on my day and how I am feeling. The kids don’t seem to notice or care.)
Visualize the Week Ahead
Sundays relax me. I love cooking and being in my kitchen. It gives me time ro meditate and start thinking about my upcoming week. I also love the thirty minutes or so I set aside on Sunday to create a visual for my week. Goals and lists. Planner crafting! These tools help me focus. Having a visual plan helps me Manage Mondays. I have more time to sip my coffee when I set my mind at ease knowing what to expect. I spend more time meditating which reduces my stress at the beginning of each day. Next Monday, I will share how I make my weekly visual, another secret weapon in my arsenal of managing Mondays.
Do you have secret weapons to help you plan and organize your days and weeks? Do you menu plan or have a cleaning list every week? How do you Manage Mondays? Please share below in the comments.
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